The next time your grandparents try to give you dating advice, you should probably take a look at this list first for a little context.

Back in 1938, Parade Magazine published a list of dating tips for women – and while some of it is pretty ambiguous, there are few suggestions that would probably be better suited for a concubine in Imperial China.

(h/t: Retronaut)

Look:

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